Complaining isn’t entirely useless. Appropriate complaining can be a way to express needs and promote changes. We should complain skillfully so that it neither hurts others nor fails to convey our dissatisfaction effectively. Complaining can also be a positive force. When used properly, it can bring positive changes to our lives.

First of all, respect the other person and say something pleasant so that the other person thinks you are a reasonable person. Next, state your core demands. Finally, give a reason to prompt the other person to be willing to do this thing.

The ability to speak well is of great importance. Negotiation is about speaking, that is, how to say things. Actually, each of us is engaged in negotiations, big or small, every day. Artful complaining is the ultimate manifestation of one’s self-cultivation.

Moderate complaining is a way of communication. When you have the urge to complain, it means there are some knots in the relationship. The way to untie them is to softly communicate and tell the other person your thoughts and feelings. As for how the other person will respond, that’s beyond our control, but we should face it calmly. Because our perspectives and feelings may be biased or prejudiced due to insufficient information or cognition.

Complaining is truly an art. As adults, we often don’t know how to resolve conflicts and contradictions in the workplace and tend to accumulate a lot of negative energy in our hearts. Learning to complain can not only solve problems but also relieve psychological pressure.

There is no progress without complaining. Complaining requires certain ways and methods. Effective complaining can fulfill one’s inner thoughts. We should reduce ineffective complaining. Effective complaining is beneficial to both the body and the mind. Also, pay attention to the timing, attitude of complaining and whether the person you want to complain to can fully understand you. Ineffective complaining is just venting emotions and can’t solve any problems but only add to your troubles.

Instead of making ineffective complaints, it’s better to give positive compliments.